Success /Prosperity Mindset
Psst… I’m gonna let you in on a secret. I’ve failed as often as I’ve won. And I’ve had a lot of wins in life … if you get my drift. I take some comfort in knowing I’m not alone – but failing is a miserable feeling. It’s also completely necessary.
The problem is never in the failing. The problem is when failing – or under performing – becomes a habit. It’s the perpetual cycle of same old thinking, same old results.
It’s something I know a little bit about.
I have had the privilege of coaching hundreds of people in my career. I’ve seen people at their best and at their worst, through their challenges and successes. And from this position of trust here’s one thing I’ve learned:
Mindset Always Precedes Performance. Always.
It doesn’t matter what the nature of the performance is – from day to day job responsibilities, to high stake sales performances, front stage or back stage, top rung or bottom rung – everything we create, every result we produce (or don’t produce), can be traced back to our mental framework. Good performance, bad performance – mindset precedes it all.
Predictably, if people continue to think the way they do today, they will continue to perform as they do today.
That’s good news for winners. But what about the rest of us? Read the rest of this entry
I love being self-employed. And one of my delights is the flexibility to work where I want, when I want.
My favorite spot to pull out my laptop is in the little park next to my home. There is a cluster of hundred year old mighty oaks, with branches which sprawl out for (what seems like) acres. Spanish moss hangs from the branches, in gorgeous lengths of curly green, which stretch halfway to the ground. The breeze blows gently here… and rustles the leaves so musically.
In the midst of this beauty is a gazebo, housing two rustic picnic tables. And as though I had designed it myself, there is a power source to keep my equipment charged. I have claimed this spot as my “office” … it nurtures my creativity. And it is here that I sit as I write this.
Today the wind is kicking up, and as I was walking to my “office”, I was wishing that I had tied my hair back. The gusts were playing havoc with my hair, and annoying me. I toyed with the idea of turning back but decided to just live with it.
To my delight and amazement, 30 yards from my “desk”, on the ground directly in front of my feet was a hairclip! And nobody around but me to claim it. It had everything but my name on it! The synchronicity was undeniable. Read the rest of this entry







